I am sure that I am not the first, and will by no means be the last girl to be confused by boys. They say that we are the complicated beings and that they are simple creatures, with simple minds... if only they knew how confusing (and aggravating) their behaviour could really be.
The one thing though that really annoys me, that grinds my gears, creams my corn and makes me want to throw my boot at them, is when they treat girls like property. What kind of thought process leads a guy into thinking that he can go behind his girlfriend's back and tell a guy not to talk to her?
He doesn't tell his girlfriend it bothered him, or even ask her to stop talking to the boy. No, he completely skips the part that might actually involve a girl's point of view, and tells the boy not to speak to his girlfriend again, and his girlfriend has no idea. If he does it over Facebook, then he has a small wena and no more can be said. I applaude the boys who don't listen to these stupid, immature boyfriends and continue to talk to the girlfriends, because atleast you realise that we are entitled to our own opinion and this is 20-bloody-13, not 1823, and girls are not a boy's property, they'll talk to who they damn-well like.
It's so chauvinistic, and all just a battle of egos and "don't go talking to my woman" - it's bollocks! Haven't we come far enough now that boys might just realise that girls are entitled to their own fucking opinion and have the ability to actually make their own decisions about who talks to them and who doesn't?
I don't know if any boys are reading this right now, but if you take anything from this post, let it be this:
If you are feeling insecure about your girlfriend talking to other boys, just talk to her about it. Not so difficult, is it?
Showing posts with label boyfriend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label boyfriend. Show all posts
Monday, 7 October 2013
Stop being a dick
Sunday, 3 March 2013
A new chapter
As we have both recently got out of considerably long-term relationships, we've decided to revel in the fact that we are once again single, and are determined not to let it get us down.
Top 20 things you can only do when you're single
- Not shave your legs in winter
- Not have to text one person all the time
- Not have to sit with them at friends' parties
- Not having to make awkward conversation with their families
- Not have to worry about what to buy him for birthdays, Christmas etc. boys are so hard to buy for!
- Have absolutely no feelings of guilt when going out with friends
- Be able to flirt with guy friends
- Watch any film you want
- Be able to post selfies without feeling guilty
- Be able to go all-out on celebrity crushes
- No longer having to worry about matching underwear
- Change appearance drastically
- Do girly things eg. nails and shopping and that
- Being able to plan your future around yourself
- Have the first stage of a relationship again
- Being able to look around when you're out and "window shop"
- Getting excited to go somewhere new and meet new people
- Being able to like other boys' profile photos
- Being able to go out with just guy friends and not feeling weird and guilty
- Feeling like you can fall in love again
Obviously the end of a relationship is not the best of times, but as with everything in life you have to make the most of what you've been given and that is what we intend to do.

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Saturday, 16 February 2013
Valentine's Day
As you know, it was Valentine's Day on Thursday, and Alex got me the most lovely presents!

Firstly, he bought me The Perks of Being a Wallflower on DVD, which is so perfect that I shed a tear when I watched it, especially when Mr Anderson says the iconic line "We accept the love we think we deserve", it gets me everytime. I won't say too much in case you haven't seen the film yet but I assure you that it truly does the book justice, which I think is largely due to Stephen Chbosky directing the film.

He also bought me a giant Lindt Lindor filled with little ones, I love it as Lindt is my favourite chocolate - I hope that I get a gold bunny for Easter!

And finally, the adorable viking Pandora charm! It bears no relevance other than I find his little beard and nose rather adorable. I now only have one space left on the silver bracelet I've had for almost three years and I think I'll save that space for an "18" charm for my birthday.
So now it's half term, and I don't have as many plans as I would perhaps like, although I am going to the cinema twice on Wednesday (once in the afternoon with my friends to watch Les Miserables and then later with Alex's friends to go and watch - guh - Die Hard 4.0) And me and Hannah have to go to yet another shitty art exhibition which I guarantee we will not appreciate or understand. I should also start revising as I only have nine school weeks left until my exams - which could mean as little as 45 Photography lessons left - woohoo!
What are you all doing this week, if you're off school/college?
Firstly, he bought me The Perks of Being a Wallflower on DVD, which is so perfect that I shed a tear when I watched it, especially when Mr Anderson says the iconic line "We accept the love we think we deserve", it gets me everytime. I won't say too much in case you haven't seen the film yet but I assure you that it truly does the book justice, which I think is largely due to Stephen Chbosky directing the film.
He also bought me a giant Lindt Lindor filled with little ones, I love it as Lindt is my favourite chocolate - I hope that I get a gold bunny for Easter!
And finally, the adorable viking Pandora charm! It bears no relevance other than I find his little beard and nose rather adorable. I now only have one space left on the silver bracelet I've had for almost three years and I think I'll save that space for an "18" charm for my birthday.
So now it's half term, and I don't have as many plans as I would perhaps like, although I am going to the cinema twice on Wednesday (once in the afternoon with my friends to watch Les Miserables and then later with Alex's friends to go and watch - guh - Die Hard 4.0) And me and Hannah have to go to yet another shitty art exhibition which I guarantee we will not appreciate or understand. I should also start revising as I only have nine school weeks left until my exams - which could mean as little as 45 Photography lessons left - woohoo!
What are you all doing this week, if you're off school/college?
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